Thursday, February 19, 2015

Rock on 2015 ! ! !

Once again I have been given a 'gentle nudge' by an anonymous friend to keep blogging!!  It would have encouraged me if you'd left your name!!  Anyway, here I am to give you a brief update on what's happening in Gaynor's World!!

I have started 2015 in the way I want to continue throughout the year…….travelling!!  I flew to Adelaide for a friends wedding on 2 January.  The day I arrived it was 42C and there were severe bush fires in the hills.  It didn't deter me from a wonderful 10 days catching up with lovely friends, most of whom I hadn't seen since Roger passed away at the end of 2011.  I had such a great time I didn't really want to come back to Melbourne, but of course I did!!

I am experiencing all sorts of emotions I have never had before.  I think when you lose someone special it just takes time to get to know who you are without your loved one by your side, and the way you should proceed!!  I have found it tough going, I think because we have moved around so much, we haven't put down roots in any one place.  Coming back to Melbourne has been much more difficult than I ever imagined, but I feel I am slowly settling in and feeling like this is where I want to be. 

I have encouraged my youngest daughter Glenda to go back to High School English teaching.  She started a couple of weeks again and I am taking care of Olivia for the 2 days she is teaching.  Olivia will be 1 on the 4 March.  She is the most adorable, happy little girl and I love the one on one time I am getting with her.  I look after Edward, Nathan (3  1/2) & Olivia together most Monday afternoons (unless our dear family friend Cheryl takes the boys on an excursion). 

Jocelyn and I have taken advantage of 2 free Melbourne Symphony  Concerts held 'under the stars' in the last week.  We've taken a picnic dinner and enjoyed the music immensely.  

I have started swimming again and I do hope I will have the discipline to continue doing this twice a week.  I do enjoy just getting in the pool and lap swimming.  I am aiming for 20 laps of the 50metre pool.  I've only been going 2 weeks and am already up to 14 laps!!

I am also continuing with Badminton which I play on a Friday afternoon.  I really enjoy it, even though I'm not fantastic!!  My multi focal glasses sometimes give me problems!!  (Well, that's my excuse anyway and I'm sticking to it!!).

Here is a little overview of what my year is looking like at the moment:


  • For the first time my 4 sisters and I will have a holiday together for 10 days to celebrate my sister Irene's 65th Birthday.  I fly to Perth on 8 March and we will all fly to Bali until 20 March.  We all can't wait.  It is going to be a lot of fun, and hopefully the start of many holidays we might have together!!!!
  • I am back for 1 week and will fly to the Gold Coast to catch up with friends we knew in Basel.  I will spend 10 days with Anna and Val at their lovely property at Ormeau.
  • I fly to Adelaide on 26 June for 10 days.  A good friend and I will spend some days at the beach (even though it will be winter - we'll enjoy the beach from inside the home!!).
  • Around the middle/late August I will fly to Basel once again and catch up with all my good friends there.  I beginning to give them 'warning' now!! 
  • Roger's lovely niece Anna will marry Irishman Phil near Dublin in the middle of September and I am planning to attend the wedding.

With my lovely friend Mary in Adelaide


Christmas Day with Olivia


Chloe ( 2 1/2)


Edward and Nathan


My lovely garden and front entrance